Living with Bob and "Al"

As Sheri has watched Bob deteriorate this past year, she tries to tell herself to look at the things that he can still do... and not what "Al" has stolen from him, because she knows it only goes down from here.  She fears she has fallen back in the trap of limiting what they do and where they go based on the work it takes to get there, and the old expectations of what enjoyment is. So she will try again this year to get out as much as she can and make a presumption that Bob and "Al" will enjoy it and that she can handle any incidents that occur along the way. This is as close to a resolution as it gets in this very small Alzheimer world she lives in.  :)