Sheri had a bit of a scare last night. Bob was in bed but looked distressed. No one else would have been able to tell, Sheri asked him if something was wrong, he wrenched is neck up towards the headboard, but did not answer. Sheri knows that "Al" can not self assess. She starts asking carefully crafted questions design for a yes or no answer, but nothing. Sheri started to panic as Bob started pointing and tapping on his chest. "Al" can not tell Sheri anything. Bob sat up in bed ... "Al" shaking his head from side to side, tapping on his chest. In that whole 3 minute time frame that felt like an hour, terrible things were running thorough her head, is it a heart attack? A stroke? Should she call 911? She knows a trip to the hospital is a bad thing for "Al" how long should she wait to decide. Just as she was reaching for the phone a huge sound comes out of Bob's mouth and it turned out that the crisis was really Bob and "Al" needing to ..... burp.
Sheri hates this disease.
This blog is about life with my husband who was diagnosed with Early Onset Alzheimer's and Frontal Lobe Dementia in 2008. He was 64 at the time although now, knowing more about the disease, Alzheimer's was present many, many years ago, which is why early detection is so important. As you read the blog the character "Al" that I created in 2008, represents the way that Alzheimer's is invading our daily lives.
There is an archive tab further down the page that starts from the beginning of our journey.
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Oh, Sheri how scary for you.....I am very happy that it was only a burp! 😄.
ReplyDeleteI can imagine your terror. Its awful when they cannot express what they need too. I'll bet a burp never sounded so sweet.
ReplyDeleteMy Mum was telling me "it hurts" when I was brushing her teeth. I thought I was hurting her mouth, and asked her to point to where it hurt (she pointed to my mouth) About 30 seconds later, I discovered that it wasn't her mouth at all that was sore, it was her tummy and I had a big exploding number 2 mess to clean up
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