This blog is about life with my husband who was diagnosed with Early Onset Alzheimer's and Frontal Lobe Dementia in 2008. He was 64 at the time although now, knowing more about the disease, Alzheimer's was present many, many years ago, which is why early detection is so important. As you read the blog the character "Al" that I created in 2008, represents the way that Alzheimer's is invading our daily lives.
There is an archive tab further down the page that starts from the beginning of our journey.

Monday, August 3, 2015

Living with Bob and "Al" "Epiphany " Part 4 of 4

Sheri had spent several days feeling sorry for herself, before she realized that in her grief she had missed the real "epiphany". As Sheri had started the journey to look for facilities for Bob, Sheri had been crying out to God, asking Him to clearly show her how she would know if it was okay to place Bob when it was time. As Sheri was stuck in her grief about the shower incident, God wiped the tears away long enough to let her see the answer to her prayer. The answer was in the "shower incident." Bob allowed some one else to care for him in the most personal way, it did not matter that it was not Sheri.
Bob will be confused when Sheri places him, but not fearful, he is truly living in the moment. The power of the answer to that prayer, released a burden from her shoulders that Sheri really can not put in to words. She knows now deep in her heart that when she places Bob it will be hard, but it will be okay. Their future rests in God's hands.
God is good all the time.

7 comments:

  1. God is wonderful and he has answered your prayers. It’s one of the hardest decisions to make; to know when the time is right to place your love one in a home.

    I am now dealing with driving issues, license suspended and now he wants to go and get a bike.
    I pray that god gives all us caregivers lots of strength.
    I will pray for you

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    1. Rina, Thank you for your support Rina, I will pray for you as well.

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    2. Rina, Thank you for your support Rina, I will pray for you as well.

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  2. Awww, what a long road? I am so glad that you have found the answer you needed to hear! That was some epiphany!

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  3. Interesting you used the word "grief". I just wrote a short post re. grief while sitting at the bedside of my mother today.

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